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★★★★☆ 4.11 • Goodreads

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If you craved Fun Home's unflinching queer reckoning through family wreckage, The Times I Knew I Was Gay by Eleanor Crewes delivers another late-bloomer excavation.

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Why It's Your Next Read

  • Pop culture refs decode queer awakening brilliantly
  • Self-aware narrative = meta memoir magic
  • Dark humor softens deep identity pain
  • Stark visuals unpack repression's quiet dread

If Fun Home taught you that queer self-discovery demands intellectual rigor and a steady eye on family wreckage, Eleanor Crewes' graphic memoir interrogates heteronormative pressures with the same tragicomic precision—trading funeral parlors for failed straight relationships, Proust for Buffy, but keeping the unflinching honesty that transforms repressed desire into resonant truth.

...trading funeral parlors for failed straight relationships, Proust for Buffy...

Crewes sketches delayed realizations with dark wit and stark visuals, building a meta-narrative of coming-out that's as self-aware as it is emotionally raw—no inspirational platitudes, just messy, hard-won authenticity.

This is the late-bloomer reckoning you didn't know you were waiting for.

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What Readers Are Saying

"I LOVED this graphic novel. It was a look at the messy, two steps forward three steps back journey to personal identity." Geoff, Goodreads
"super gay graphic memoir!! crewes provides an excellent rendering of the deep denial that manifests when you know something about yourself but know you aren't ready to live with it yet. that dread and anxiety are tangible." Steph, Goodreads
"I felt close to tears multiple times while reading this because I related to her journey so much." Tucker Almengor, Goodreads

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