After Hunt, Gather, Parent
Parenting with an Accent by Masha Rumer
If indigenous communities cracked open your parenting assumptions, immigrant kitchen-table wisdom will finish the job. This book trades jungle fieldwork for Eastern European grandmothers and Soviet émigrés who raised fiercely capable kids without ever hearing of enrichment classes—same relief, same permission to step back, but drawn from cultures that survived by teaching resilience, not optimizing it.